Which pairs are the strongest? Is it better to find a partner similar to yourself or the exact opposite? Are the same qualities of character important and so on and so forth ...
Well, our work gives us the opportunity to analyze many family stories, many types of relationships and, of course, divorce.
And the analysis leads to many thoughts, in fact. Of course, there are no patterns and rules in amorous affairs. Sometimes your choice of a partner can be so unpredictable ... Who recognized themselves?
But, thanks to the statistics of Kamila Agency, some conclusions can be drawn.
Let's start with a couple called
"Strong man + soft and flexible woman."
Couples get along better, where a strong man who is a breadwinner, conqueror, winner and a soft complaisant woman who is ready to follow her beloved, adapt to his various states and moods, who knows how to be silent at the right time and forget about her desires.
But then, when a man is in a resourceful state and rising, during the period of his success, she will reap the benefits of this and enjoy his attention to her, because when a man has won a victory, he has time for love and tenderness, and at this time he is the best and an attentive lover. And at the moments of his battle and solving problems, he simply does not physically or morally have enough time for love, and a wise and flexible woman understands everything, abstracts from this and waits for a prosperous period for her lover.
What does a strong and ambitious woman who also lives in a “fight-win” regime with such a person do?
She just boils with anger and goes over hundreds of thoughts in her head:
“Doesn't he love me anymore? How can he not pay attention to me? He can't behave like that with me! He just went to bed, he doesn't want me anymore. He began to pay less attention to me. He doesn't listen to my opinion. He is not interested in what worries me. He thinks only of himself. I can make a lot of money myself . I can solve any questions myself. I will become successful, and he will see who he lost. I'll pretend that I don't care about him now. I will pretend that I am as cold now as he is. I will not show my feelings because I am strong and independent. I do not admit my guilt, because he is to blame. " And hundreds more similar thoughts.
Therefore, the male winners, "real man" are mostly with women who are gentle, kind and patient wives, who can wait for him faithfully and forgive, close their eyes to many things that women priestesses have never closed their eyes to.
It often happens that strong successful women attract weaker men who will love her, listen to her and admire her.
This type of relationship can be called "Cleopatra + sane and calm person." And often such women are comfortable with a softer man, because she is sure that he will be hers in any case, she is warm and comfortable with him, and she does not waste energy trying to measure eggs with her husband and understand who is right and who is not.
There is another version of the relationship, my favorite, "Successful woman + successful man." This is a very rare type of relationship and extremely powerful and long lasting.
To reach this level, it is necessary to invest well in their development both for a man and a woman. This is about those who have no complexes. A successful man is looking for a successful woman, and vice versa.
He wants to see a worthy couple for himself, so that he can be proud of her, so that there is someone to talk to and consult with in the evening.
And sincerely rejoice successes for her , and not think that she is somehow better than him or he is unworthy of her, or die of jealousy, because so many men want her, and suddenly someone appears better and she wants to leave. It's about intelligent and confident men who are not afraid of anything, they know that anything is possible !!
He has no complexes, he is successful, happy and strives for healthy relationships, and is firmly convinced that he is worthy of the best woman !!!
And such a woman will always understand when he is headlong into a new project and will never reproach him with a lack of attention, but, on the contrary, will support him, regardless of whether he is defeated or won. Firstly, because she believes in her chosen one with all her heart, and secondly, because she understands this state very well when you live by work and do not notice anything around you. In this union, inspiration always lives, the desire to create and generate cool ideas, and the energy is distributed in the right direction.
Everyone in life has something to which they agrees and what they wants. No more, no less. If a person thinks this woman is definitely not for me, then it will be so. He makes his own choice. Well, when a woman is sure: “No, this person is too tough for me,” this is only her decision.
We have in life exactly as much as we want ourselves. Everything depends only on the strength of desire, the efforts made and the energy aimed at fulfilling your desire.