Do you know what is the best way of self-discovery?
Look at your partner. Or those you are emotionally attached to.
They are your biggest mirror…
Life always sends us those people from whom we can and SHOULD learn something. Such a long-term improvement plan.
And the closer a person is to us, the stronger the emotional connection, the more he reflects us, more precisely what we need to pay attention to.
As they say, like attracts like)
First, we fall in love with the best reflection of ourselves in this person.
All his virtues, which fascinate us so much, are us, our best version.
Or what we really want...
Over time, when the pink elephants are already dying, those qualities that irritate and trigger begin to emerge.
Often the claims you make to him, you make to yourself🤷🏻♀️
Dissatisfied with some character trait? Then pay attention to yourself, to what you do not notice, or suppress...
And you know, change as many partners as you want, but if these points are not worked out, the exact same scenarios will be repeated.
Therefore, first of all, you need to change yourself!
Our most important love task in life is to come to the point that we do not love our best qualities in our partner and hate her (our) shortcomings, but love and accept her for who she is.
When it ceases to be a projection of our psychotraumas...
And what is needed for this? That's right - to love and accept yourself!
